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The Dawn of Discovering Racial Identity as a Transracial Adoptee

I grew up in a conservative Christian adoptive home. My white adoptive parents subscribed to a colorblind mindset. Because of that, I grew up feeling uncomfortable embracing my identity as a BIPOC. The same people who claimed they did not see skin color were also those that called attention to how mine did not match.Continue reading “The Dawn of Discovering Racial Identity as a Transracial Adoptee”

4 Simple Responses Instead of “I Understand” During Tough Conversations with your Adopted Child

With each new racial injustice making the news, I know the work my clients will bring with them to our next therapy session. We will set aside their goals and what we had planned to discuss. My clients’ need to process continued trauma to their community will take precedence over everything else. Increasingly over theContinue reading “4 Simple Responses Instead of “I Understand” During Tough Conversations with your Adopted Child”

A Snapshot; Growing up as an Over- and Misdiagnosed Transracial Adoptee

Lately, I sift through files given to me months ago. I go slowly, because there is a lot. The files go back to when I entered foster care at the age of two weeks. They contain every imaginable detail of a young child’s life. They contain evidence of the systemic racism, discrimination, and stereotyping oneContinue reading “A Snapshot; Growing up as an Over- and Misdiagnosed Transracial Adoptee”

Boundaries, Privacy and Adoption: When an Adoptee’s Safe Space and Narrative is Taken

I want to discuss boundaries and Privacy in relation to adoption. I want us to look a little closer. These excerpts were taken from my personal journal when I was between the ages of 14-16 years old. I struggled greatly during this time for many reasons. Some things that unfold right in these pages. AsContinue reading “Boundaries, Privacy and Adoption: When an Adoptee’s Safe Space and Narrative is Taken”

How and why discipline should look different for children who have been adopted, have a history of being in foster care or who are currently in foster care?

Discipline is a part of parenting that is not always fun. It is the part where you have to do the things that do not necessarily make you feel good, but is essential to equip our children with the tools to succeed throughout their life. Discipline does not always look the same. Let’s look a little closer at why discipline SHOULDContinue reading “How and why discipline should look different for children who have been adopted, have a history of being in foster care or who are currently in foster care?”

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